Once a week Adam plays in a softball league that conflicts with bedtime so it’s up to me to put both kids down for bed. Of course, they don’t go to sleep at the same time and the infant goes to bed before the toddler.
I’ve tried inviting Elson into the room while putting Shay to sleep. I would read him books and ask him to use his quiet voice (major fail!).
I’ve tried putting Elson in his room to play where I know he’s safe. This works sometimes unless he decides he needs me for food, water, or potty help.
It was just taking way too long to put her to sleep while Elson was in his room. On top of that, Shay would often call me BACK in after I just spent half and hour trying to get her down.
After trying a few things, I decided what I’m doing isn’t working and moved to instead accepting that Shay’s bedtime had to look different that night. So once a week I now put her in the wrap instead! I dress her for bed and tuck her in. Then I go about my evening hanging with my toddler until it’s time get him ready for bed and read a few books before it’s lights out. All while Shay sleeps on me. Once he’s down, I can focus on transferring her from the wrap to the bed and have found she transfers with ease… I’m enjoying these evenings so much more now!
This is working for us right now, and I’m sure will evolve as the kids get older. Parents in a similar situation, any tips?